EXCLUSIVE ROLES OF PARENTS IN CHILDREN UPBRINGING

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*EXCLUSIVE ROLES OF PARENTS IN CHILDREN UPBRINGING*

Parents have four major roles to play in the life of their children.

*1-* INSTRUCTIONAL   ROLES.

*2-* REBUKE ROLES.

*3-* EXHORTATION ROLES

*4-* EDUCATIVE ROLES.

*INSTRUCTIONAL ROLES.*

We must instruct our children:

*To behave well in public.

*To rise up early each day.

*To pray first thing as they rise.

*To be the first to greet people.

*To clean up themselves properly.

*To clean their environment.

*To be early and timely to every daily tasks.

*To be orderly.

*To be respectful to people.

*To speak in decent language.

*To organise themselves.

*To plan their schedules.

*To have their daily timetable off hand.

*To comport themselves in quietness.

*To be articulate, reasonable and expectant.

*To ask questions when in doubt.

*To listen carefully with understanding.

*To act with decorum, courtesy and humility always.

*To defend the family name and image at all times.

*To obey elders, set rules and regulations.

*To pray before retiring to bed at night.

*REBUKE ROLES*.

We must rebuke our children:

*When they portray laziness.

*When they are prayerless.

*When they appear dirty.

*When they’re insolent.

*When they speak foul languages.

*When they speak improperly.

*When they sit carelessly.

*When they participate in unsolicited discussions.

*When they come late to appointments or tasks.

*When they talk back to elders in anger.

*When you notice pride in them.

*When they become spendthrift.

*When they eat irregularly.

*When they cannot control their appetite.

*When you notice ostentatious lifestyle in them.

*When they think about materialism always.

*When they unnecessarily compare themselves with others.

*When they speak abusively of other parents or elders or mates.

*When you notice the spirit of hatred in them.

*When they make hate speeches.

*When they complain always about others.

*When they move with suspicious characters.

*When they are not extolling learning.

*When they’re not proud of academic achievements.

*When they abuse their teachers at home.

*When they discredit their school.

*When they plan to revenge or retaliate against actions.

*When they refuse to obey constituted authority.

*When they fail to pray.

*EXHORTATION ROLES.*

Parents must Praise their children :

*When they do well in assignments and exams.

*When they are properly dressed.

*When they speak well in public.

*When they speak well of their institution and teachers.

*When they speak well of others.

*When their carriage is decent.

*When they express Godly values.

*When they always talk about excellence.

*When they spend less time watching TV.

*When they spend more time studying.

*When they spend less time talking.

*When they spend more time listening.

*When they spend right time praying.

*When they spend less time playing.

*When they know what to do.

*When they know what is right.

*When they refuse to do what is wrong.

*When their ambition is to be the best in good endeavours.

*When they speak of becoming Great People.

*When they take action that meets good vision.

*EDUCATIVE ROLES.*

Parents must Teach their children :

*How to live honest life.

*How to live amongst people.

*How to live in comfort with others.

*How to love and appreciate others.

*How to be fair to all concerned.

*How to love their teachers, school and those in authority over them.

*How to obey rules and regulations.

*How to live in dignity and self esteem.

*How to plan their future.

*How to raise Godly homes.

*How proper education answers to most of life’s challenges.

*How to escape from bad friendship.

*How to pick a career.

*How to develop their career.

*How to pass through life successfully by depending on God and not man.

*How to pass examinations without malpractice.

*How to be studious and build their brains.

*How to set academic standards for now and their future.

*How to flaunt Excellent Achievements and not Beauty.

*How to be Intellectual Celebrities.

*How to have a vision.

*That Godliness with contentment is great gain.

*How to love GOD and their neighbor.

*How to live in fear of GOD.

_*When we play these  roles, our children by the grace of GOD will come out great and the parents will have a good old age and memorial.*

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