Whenever I’m opportuned to provide speak on youngster psychology, I understand that loads of Nigerians should not have children. They simply give start not as a result of they perceive what it means to lift kids however as a result of they’re anticipated to breed at sure stage and age.

You do not have to inform me how you reside,

You needn’t inform me who you’re,

I haven’t got to ask you the type of guardian you’re…

Just present me your youngster.

Go to a play floor full of youngsters and you’ll perceive the type of future we’re going to have.

You see bullies amongst kids,


You see kids who’re raised on love,

You’ll see compassionate kids,

You see kids who discriminate in opposition to different children by their colleges, the English they communicate or their garments.

You’ll see those talking out for different bullied kids,

You’ll see kids who will inform adults  what they’re doing is mistaken.

These kids have been molded by their dad and mom.

When a child hears the mother talks down on kids who attends authorities faculty, they may discriminate in opposition to kids who attends authorities colleges,

When a toddler hears the dad and mom talks sick or makes unhealthy jokes about albinism, dwarfs, folks dwelling with one type of incapacity or the opposite, they may discriminate in opposition to these set of individuals.

When a toddler sees the dad and mom bullies others, they can even bully others.

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When a toddler sees the dad and mom at all times correcting issues and doing the best factor, they may do identical.

Let me share these eventualities .

Traveling by bus in 2005, a buscuit wrap was tossed by means of the window, a bit woman stated, “stop littering the country” however there have been different buscuits wraps on the ground na; then she stated “If there are 50 buscuits papers on the floor, yours will make it 51, that is how another person will make it 52 and before you know, the whole world has buscuits papers on the floor”. The man was ashamed as a result of they have been different adults listening and smiling… and so women and gents, a toddler made me cease littering in 2005 and until date, I do not do this, I maintain trash in my bag till I get house or see a waste bin. I do not know the place that child is today, however increase your kids to talk up for what is true.

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A neighbor obtained a kitten in 2018, his neighbor’s 4 years previous youngster got here and noticed the kitten meowing she carried the kitten and was crying “she is looking for her mommy”.

She promised  that she’s going to care for the kitten. Whenever she comes again from faculty, she’s going to come to the neighbor’s home with half of her buscuit she saved for the kitten after which she’s going to say “I’ll take care of you, you hear?”

Teach your kids compassion, increase them to care.

My cousin of 10 years chased a dove away from our window as a substitute of killing it, I jumped on prime our chair shouting “kill it! Kill it!!” He refused, I requested him why did not he kill it, then he stated “that’s how people killed all the Dinosaurs on earth, now you want me to kill a dove until all the doves will finish and we will have to go to the zoo to go and look at doves”. I simply weak… The boy simply turned 18 and is at present finding out Vet Medicine. The complete household nicknamed him “Doctor Ant” as a result of he does not kill animals or birds together with ants. He chases them away.

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Raise your kids to talk up for what they care about.

Teach your kids to do the best factor even once you’re not there.

Your kids are a mirrored image of you.

Raise your kids to talk up for what they care about.

We went to authorities main faculty to run considered one of our packages. We noticed a boy weeping, he stated his pen was stolen, we searched the empty class and we noticed some pens left by different college students, he stated they weren’t his and he would not take them.

Then one other woman of about 11 got here with a typical “Nigerian stealing” perspective, “If na me ehn, if my one biro loss, 10 go follow me go house”

By no means break a lady’s coronary heart

This is a case of two kids,

One refused to even take those left within the class, one other one is boasting how she would steal different folks’s gadgets to interchange hers.

The greatest option to begin appropriately altering our social ills is thru kids!

Health, cultural, spiritual, ethical packages with lecturers and different support groups will assist alot!

The journey of a thousand miles start with one step!

Let’s us all do the little we will do- by our motion, our palms, our mouth (speech) to alter the unhealthy ills of our kids and the time is now.

Let all adults develop that ideas of adjusting the society for the higher!


May Allah make it straightforward for us! Ameen