Dear Secondary School Girls,
You are at your teenage interval; each man calls you candy sixteen; you’re like a ripe fruit that catches the eyes of birds and males; you’re to fetish males like a pure white pounded yam with a scrumptious soup ready to be devoured. It is for that reason that some married males with as many as 4 wives nonetheless chase you round as a result of the lust in him makes him discover your faculty uniform extra attractive than the lingeries of his wives at home. You ought to realise that the majority males who come after you wish to have their way with you because they feel you’re value only a doughnut and a bottle of Kunu, which is barely equal to a lunch for his spouse at dwelling. It means they do not worth you the best way they love their wives. Is this actually who you wish to open your legs for?
This month of July, a lot of you graduated from secondary faculty; we have now seen photos from a lot of you on social media celebrating your commencement; maybe you’re additionally pleased that you simply’d quickly go away your mum or dad’s roof and go far-off to varied establishments the place you’d have ‘freedom’. This is what number of of your predecessors had been doomed; the truth that you’re leaving your dad and mom into the world is one thing to fret about and will even make you weep, however then Shaitan makes it appear to be a ‘jail break’ to most of you. He makes you see your dad and mom as two troublesome individuals who continually watch you and bore you with home chores. Still, you neglect so shortly that your dad and mom are literally your secondary protectors from the evil of society and even the tiny bugs; your dad and mom are the one two individuals on the earth who would hand over their lives so that you can survive, not these boyfriends or Alhajis which are asking on your bed room photos on WhatsApp. Many of your secondary faculty friends have been deceived by these similar males to present their virginities as birthday presents, new 12 months presents and valentine presents. They ended up getting contaminated with STDs or undesirable pregnancies, and the worst is that of Zina towards Allah. Never let any man contact you until you get married.
The prophet Sallallahu Alayhi wassalam mentioned:
“For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than touching a woman who is not permissible for him.”
(al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486, Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045)
You can see the severity of fornication. Don’t shake arms with any man and even hug any man.
ﻓَﻘَﺎﻝَ ﺭَﺳُﻮﻝُ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ” ﺇِﻧِّﻲ ﻻَ ﺃُﺻَﺎﻓِﺢُ ﺍﻟﻨِّﺴَﺎﺀَ
The Prophet (SAW) mentioned: I don’t shake arms with girls.
(Nasdaq 4181, saheehul Jame’e 2513).
Some of you could have the so-called ‘male bestie’, which is the beginning of fornication; if you happen to should have a greatest good friend, select your greatest good friend out of your fellow feminine buddies, and never from the alternative gender, open up to your dad and mom and never some random boys on the market who’re nonetheless troubled with juvenile delinquency. If you could have questions on puberty or menstrual circulation and the likes, ask your mom and never your so-called greatest good friend. Else, that’s the final class you’ll attend earlier than getting raped or impregnated by boys who nonetheless obtain day by day pocket cash from their dad and mom.
If you’re a sort with excessive libido and also you crave loads for the corporate of the opposite gender, you possibly can talk about it along with your dad and mom and have them get you married early; that is higher and extra honourable for you, it does not have an effect on your training or profession, I married my spouse when she was simply 19 years outdated. She was one of the best graduating scholar in a division of about 1000 college students in 2014. Marriage does not have an effect on your mind. Instead, it is pointless heartbreaks from chewing gum leaking boys that can have an effect on your mind and emotional being. Do not be intoxicated by your magnificence or their praises. Being stunning with out frequent sense is a mere show of beauty foolishness. If you retain your innocence until marriage, you’re value greater than gold and diamonds. So don’t let a idiot kiss you.
May Allah protects our teenage ladies. Ameen_