The gang up towards polygamy and the indoctrination of elites towards it’s what’s baffling to social scientists.Wives have been brainwashed to see polygamy as evil whereas its black market model is accepted and allowed to thrive unabated.
Women have additionally come to just accept the indignity that comes with being labelled a aspect chick than a co-wife.And all of us faux as if illegal polygamy shouldn’t be booming and blossoming in excessive torrents.Only God is aware of the form of billions that’s getting used to maintain illicit affairs globally.Of course polygamy comes with it is personal challenges so additionally illicit relationships.If solely we may be extra truthful and sensible to ourselves we all know that aspect chick syndrome is so frequent with humanity coupled with a deliberate tradition of creating some ladies object of public pleasure and withdrawing their curiosity away from marriage.
This little doubt represents a neo-liberal conspiracy towards elites ladies which additional makes them develop aversion to marriage not to mention polygamy.The rat race for mercantile tradition which embraces luxurious over productiveness and creates a lazy citizenry additionally makes lots of ladies to look as much as the wealthy however aged as a supply of earnings.Rather than change into second wife she might be blissful to stay a mistress.
The refusal to embrace polygamy has created a fertile black market the place ladies are used and dumped.And the elites particularly ladies prefer it that method.Rather than carry her as second spouse,the spouse at dwelling prefers her husband to this point as many as there are outdoors,offered she is not going to witness the orgy. And this considering provides to the confusion.The husband then goes gaga and of their naivity they assume they’re practising monogamy.A person is legally married to 1 girl however retains and maintains a harem outdoors and he foolishly persuade himself that he’s a monogamist.When it involves marriage,I’ve by no means seen a extra deceitful observe save for this era.We faux that monogamy is frequent when in precise truth,the polygamy all of us despise is just about been practised by so many beneath the carpet.Let the confusion continues since we’re by no means truthful to ourselves.It is thrilling too that girls are complaining that they should have boyfriends too similar to the husband having mistresses.And we are saying let the confusion turns into louder.
Next time you’re being requested,what number of wives do you’ve?Have the braveness to say one spouse and two girlfriends and we are going to know that you’re a polygamist masquerading as a monogamist.
Prof. Yusuf Dankofa