_*Be an instance.*

_Learn your deen, do not simply inherit it. Be one of the best of you. You know, most individuals is not going to examine the Quran nor the Hadith (particularly non-muslims and a few muslims too), they’re going to examine you. Be a finest instance to them. Let them change by seeing you. Don’t be extra into phrases however actions. Just studying shouldn’t be enough reasonably bringing to apply is. Try your finest._

 *THE HYPE ABOUT SEX*

The pointless hype about intercourse has made many males to lose their originality within the title of making an attempt to impress their girl.

 Originality is essential in all the pieces together with intercourse and intimacy. Be your self. Don’t attempt to copy anybody else. All we’d like is contentment.

 Although polygyny has so much to do with sexual capability, it’s not all about that. I found and I can’t cease saying that the secrets and techniques of marital intercourse is communication, vitamin and mutual understanding of one another’s nature. You need not reduce your life short because of sex. Using Viagra is harmful. Ask your docs, they know higher. You need not do sihr (magic) in an effort to please your companion sexually.

In my analysis, I found some males go for “gbere” (scarification) in different to proof “strong” in mattress. Some ladies go for magical beads. These are types of shirk. A person begins to assume one thing is improper with him simply because he does not do greater than two (2) rounds at a time and he goes to any size to enhance simply to proof that he deserves extra wives. Some ladies drive themselves to transcend their capability simply to show their power or for his or her males to not start to consider one other spouse. All these should cease. Let’s attempt to be actual. While you will need to forestall and deal with all types of sexual defects, going past bounds shouldn’t be solely unislamic, it harms the physique and results in regrets.

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