*WHILE HEROES ARE REMEMBERED IN THEIR GRAVES, COWARDS TAKE OVER AND ENJOY WHAT THEY LEFT BEHIND: BE WISE IN YOUR REACTION TO ISSUES*
April 2020 in Lagosi; Two males residing in the identical yard killed themselves whereas preventing, in a bid to indicate how protecting they had been to their wives. They are presently mendacity within the mortuary in all probability to proceed the combat within the afterworld. Let me burst your mind, the wives settled their differences after the death of their husbands and they’re presently collectively, residing peacefully as widows.
May 2020 in similar Lagos, a pair on bike collided with a Lexus Jeep 2020 Model which additionally had one other couple inside.
The bike man was at fault, however like typical bike males in Nigeria, they’re by no means unsuitable. As the couple within the jeep got here down to determine the extent of the harm on their automotive. Loads of insults had been heaped on them by the opposite couple.
They ended with this frequent annoying and upsetting cliche, ”Are you silly?”
The Lexus man saved his cool all of the whereas, inspected his automotive and noticed it was a little bit scratch, and he requested his spouse to enter the automotive to allow them to depart. His spouse could not take it. She responded with hell of insult on these couple and completed up together with her husband, telling him how silly he’s and the way he’s all the time a coward. Someone scratched your automotive and insulted you to cap it up and all you may inform me is ”enter the automotive let’s go”. Can’t you combat him? is he not a fellow man?
He nonetheless saved mute, whereas his spouse entered the automotive after her rants. He quietly informed his spouse, did not you hear what they ended with? they mentioned, ”Are you silly?” That’s not an insult, that is a query. You and I do know the reply, I’m not silly and might by no means be silly. While he mentioned this, he turned on his ignition and zoomed off. The bike man and his spouse wallowed in guilt again house as a result of passersby truly gave it to them sizzling. But most significantly, each households lived fortunately thereafter.
Same metropolis, similar situation, completely different reactions, completely different outcomes.
What level am I attempting to make?
What occurs to you in life does not matter, it’s what you make out of it that issues. The angle you give to points determines whether or not your future can be vibrant or bleak.
Also, don’t permit anybody to manage your feelings and push you into doing issues you do not need to do or to do issues not morally proper or to combat simply to show a degree.
Master your feelings, keep calm, attempt to overlook the issues you’re higher than. It is just not cowardice it’s referred to as being accountable.
Never you combat soiled with a pig, dirtiness is a pig’s pleasure.
