BEFORE YOU KILL YOUR SPOUSE, READ THIS
By Bisi Adewale
Now that we don’t know who’s extra possible between women and men to kill his or her partner, I believe we have to talk about this.
Everyday, the information beat is awash with the information of a person killing his spouse or a lady killing her husband. Women are getting extra daring by the day and so they flip all the pieces in the home to weapons. Frying pans, pestles, turning spatula, and many others are very useful for attacking their husbands.
A spouse used a kitchen knife meant for chopping meat to slice her husband’s genitals. Could you consider that this girl compelled her husband to carry his genitals as blood gushed out from his gut like water? The bitter spouse didn’t see her husband as a person however an animal that ought to die a gradual and painful dying.
Another girl employed a killer to assist in murdering her dishonest husband at their house in Osogbo. She cooked for her husband, had intercourse with him and made him sleep off (she confessed she had intercourse with him to make him very weak and sleep shortly). As her husband was quick asleep, she introduced within the killer who suffocated her husband with a pillow whereas she held his legs strongly so the killer might do his job simply.
A person killed his younger spouse out of anger. He suspected her of dishonest on him. He threw her into the backyard from the second ground simply to make individuals consider she fell by chance.
Sandra has simply been sentenced to dying for killing her husband in Abuja. She stabbed him seventeen occasions, to make certain he was very useless possibly.
Yewande Oyediran, a lawyer, killed her husband in Ibadan a number of months in the past.
Akolade Arowolo who killed his banker spouse and was sentenced to dying by a Lagos State High Court continues to be awaiting his day within the Cout of Appeal.
Lekan Sonde who killed his spouse in Egbeda is ready for the hangman to return calling.
With all these killings and gory sights, we have to ask ourselves, “What has come over us? Where did we get it wrong? We were not like this before, what is happening?”
BEFORE YOU KILL YOUR SPOUSE, LISTEN TO ME
Life is so valuable, you may’t give it, you aren’t permitted to take it. No matter your causes for it, as quickly as you are taking a life or change into violent, you’ll be the responsible one and the legislation will take its course in opposition to you.
WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO LOSE IF YOU KILL
You have many issues to lose by turning into violent in your marriage. Once it results in dying or bodily hurt, the entire nation will probably be in opposition to you. It will probably be you in opposition to the state. You are possible going to be killed or sentenced to life imprisonment for those who kill your partner.
Before you’re sentenced in court docket and executed, you’ll have spent some years in solitary confinement within the jail yard. All those that are hailing you now won’t be with you. They will probably be in opposition to you for a reality. You will probably be by yourself to face your foolishness alone.
As quickly as you’re sentenced to dying, you’ll be taking to a condemn prison cell. It is essentially the most horrible place anyone can ever be. You will stay in worry of the hangman for the remainder of your life. You gained’t know the day he’ll come however you recognize he’s coming for positive.
The individual’s blood of your sufferer will then be in your fingers and your neck eternally. What an enormous burden to bear. It will probably be on report that you’re a killer, a assassin!
Your kids will carry this stigma all the times of their lives. If your kids’s potential inlaws get to know their background, they could be certain that that their kids don’t marry your kids. Your Children are going to stay the remainder of their lives in agony.
If you kill your partner, your kids will find yourself shedding each dad and mom because the state will kill a killer.
Don’t enable anger, bitterness and resentment take the higher of you. Don’t enable jealousy to dictate your life. Don’t allow damage to remain in your life and damage your future.
Soon, anger will disappear when blood begins to gush out whereas your partner is on the ground and a bloody knife is in your fingers. The police will come calling, handcuff your fingers which will probably be your new wristwatch as your life turns from midday to midnight. The useless will probably be higher than you as she or he may have a spot of relaxation and sympathy of individuals. But you’ll not have the privilege of relaxation or peace of thoughts. No!
When you kill, you homicide sleep and pleasure. People’s curses will go along with you as you step on the blood of the harmless soul that will probably be crying for vengeance.
Friends will desert you, your loved ones will disown you, you’ll stand alone as a lawyer makes a number of cash out of your foolishness earlier than they cease calling once they see you to the hangman. Most Lawyers gained’t present as much as see you off to the hangman’s workshop as you gained’t stay to pay them for that service. You know legal professionals and costs, so you’re by yourself. Only a priest who you’d meet for the primary and solely time will probably be known as to steer you on the journey your stupidity and volatility ignited.
Regret, remorse and remorse will probably be your companion because the rope snuffs out your valuable life from you due to your lack of discretion.
Nothing, I imply nothing is definitely worth the lifetime of anyone. Don’t take it as a result of you’ll not have a hiding place, the legislation will name on you.
Read, this over once more and by no means go close to your kitchen when you’re indignant. Don’t use the kitchen instruments as your ballistic missile to destroy somebody you as soon as stated you liked.
When marriage is hurting, discuss to consultants who will show you how to to deal with the scenario. Your F.F.F won’t be useful at the moment. They will gasoline the fireplace the extra. F.F.F means Family Members, Friends and Fans.
Look for assist in the appropriate quarters earlier than you find yourself killing any person and hurting your self. If you’re being damage and feeling murderous, communicate out now and search assist. If your partner is hurting you deeply, search assist, not weapons.
This post was originally published on June 10, 2022.
